I think that you’ll find this interesting – an article from the New York Times (by Claire Cain Miller) on why boys seem to be on the backfoot from the start.  I have definitely witnessed Prep becoming more academic. If you’d prefer to listen to the article, click below:

As the expectations for kindergarten have risen, the changes have put boys, who tend to mature later, at a disadvantage.

Girls have been outperforming boys in American schools for decades, from elementary school through college. But the gender gap in education starts even earlier: Boys enter kindergarten less prepared than girls, and this early deficit can compound and help explain some of the recent struggles of boys and young men.

Across measures of kindergarten readiness — including reading, math, motor skills and behaviors like socializing, paying attention and regulating emotions — girls score higher than boys.

Girls Outpace Boys in Kindergarten Skills

Share of U.S. children ages 3 to 5 considered on track for kindergarten in 2022 and 2023 combined.

Source: National Survey of Children’s Health

These are averages, and researchers emphasize that there are many boys with strong skills and girls with lagging skills. Other factors also contribute — the gaps in kindergarten readiness by family income and by race are larger than they are for gender.

But over the last two decades, as those gaps have narrowed, the gender gaps have become more consequential. Kindergarten has become significantly more academic because of the effects of a national law passed in 2001, with children expected to spend more time sitting still and learning math and reading — and many boys do not enter with the skills to meet those expectations.

Adding to that, childhood has changed in recent years in ways that could have set back boys further. The isolation of the pandemic delayed young children’s development, parents are increasingly stressed,  and children are spending more time on screens. These factors affect all children, but they may have been particularly hard on boys, who scientists have shown are more vulnerable to hardship. 

Taken together, these changes set boys on a disadvantaged path throughout school. Jayanti Owens, who studies inequality in schools at the Yale School of Management, has found that boys’ behavior at ages 4 and 5 predicted the amount of schooling they finished by their mid-20s.

Skills build on themselves, so children who don’t master kindergarten phonics or counting could remain behind in future grades. And children who struggle with academics or behavior risk developing negative perceptions of themselves as learners.

“That instigates a cycle where a boy doesn’t think, ‘I’m smart,’ doesn’t think, ‘I’m good at school,’ and if you’re told enough times that you’re not good at what the teacher is expecting of you, you start to manifest that,” Professor Owens said.

Jordan Green, who lives in Tulsa, Okla., said her son just finished kindergarten “by the skin of his teeth.” In pre-K, he was “always in trouble for being too rowdy” — and his punishment was to skip recess, which Ms. Green said backfired because he couldn’t let out his energy. In kindergarten, he was behind school benchmarks for learning letters and numbers.

The school has suggested testing for dyslexia or A.D.H.D. Ms. Green, a forensic scientist, wonders, though, if he’s “just a normal, hyper, extroverted little boy.”

Regardless, she said, “It’s setting my son up to always feel behind and always feel like he’s not good enough.”

Boys tend to mature later, said Lise Eliot, a professor of neuroscience at Rosalind Franklin University, especially when it comes to executive function — skills like paying attention, regulating emotions and inhibiting inappropriate behaviors.

While these differences can start small, she said, they can become bigger through socialization — the ways in which parents and teachers have different expectations of boys and girls, and treat them differently. Executive function is crucial for learning and academic success, a variety of research has shown, and the gender gap in when children develop these skills explains much of the achievement gap in early elementary school.

That has become truer since the early 2000s, when kindergarten became more academic. The change was driven by pressure to increase standardized testing under the No Child Left Behind law, and by increased competition amongst parents to educate their children. Kindergarten — which used to involve play time and multiple recesses, and was often a half day, with a nap — began to look much different.

Researchers at the University of Virginia compared kindergarten in 2010 and 1998. They found that in just over a decade, teachers had allocated much more time to academic subjects and desk work, and less time to art, music and activities like blocks or dramatic play. The share who said students should learn to read in kindergarten increased to 80 percent from 31 percent.

Amanda Nehring, a kindergarten teacher in Crystal Lake, said the expectations for kindergartners had become more like what had been asked of first or second graders.

She’s had to give up play time for math and literacy because that’s what students are tested on. But some students, often boys, now struggle so much that support staffers pull them out of class for “movement breaks.”

In report cards this month, she had to record whether students could write the alphabet with a pencil. Nearly all the girls could, but just a quarter of the boys. Yet they knew their letters, she said, and could build them with Play-Doh or write them with a crayon.

“It’s not that they don’t get it,” Ms. Nehring said. “Boys are just as capable, but we don’t provide them with the means to show this.”

And since the pandemic, children are entering kindergarten with fewer skills than before. Young boys’ development seems to have been particularly affected.

A big change is increased time spent on screens. While it affects all young children, kindergarten teachers said that boys are having more trouble than ever paying attention.

Ms. Nehring has always rewarded her class with pajama and movie days — but in recent years, she said, kindergartners had lost the ability to sit through a movie. “They only want quick little YouTube shorts or TikTok,” she said. “You get 10 minutes max. We had to show ‘Encanto’ in three parts. It’s boys and girls, but much more often my boys are the first to go.”

Researchers say there are ways to support young boys. Starting them in kindergarten a year later could help close gender gaps in maturity.  Male kindergarten teachers could be role models who know what it’s like to be a boy in school.

A powerful way to help boys — and girls too — is to bring back more play  into the early years of school, because it’s how young children learn best, researchers and teachers said. Movement, music, time outside, games with peers and activities like puzzles all help children build skills like self-regulation and executive function.  Play-based preschool has been shown to shrink gender gaps.

Pat Shaw, the director of a bilingual preschool in Davidson, N.C., said she gets pressure from local kindergartens to teach academic topics. Instead, her students make butter when they learn about cows, cover the floor with an art project when they learn about the solar system, and dig for bones in the sandbox when they learn about dinosaurs.

“Everything is very hands-on, and boys like that,” she said. “Which isn’t to say girls don’t — girls do too — but girls come with those kinds of traits that teachers like. Boys need more time to play. So I just love to keep them engaged.”

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